Recently, I was honored and humbled to be named one of four finalists for Edmond Woman of the Year along with my ministry partner Pam Kanaly. They asked each candidate to provide a favorite quote that encapsulated our personal motto.
I knew immediately. No hesitation. “Leave everything better than you found it” remains a quote that has infiltrated my life for many years. Most are familiar with this statement from the book that swept the nation in the 90’s called God’s Little Instruction Book. But my first introduction to the concept came from my mother. If she said it once, she restated it a million times. As a child, you think it only results in work. As a teenager, you roll your eyes. As an adult, you consider it wisdom.
Several years ago I chose to make it a prevalent motto for how I lived my life. Leave everything better than you found it. Such a simple statement for such an all-encompassing principle. What exactly does it mean? What is everything?
Imagine all you encounter every day. It might be people, things, or places. Each contact is the “everything”: friends, grocery stores, family, co-workers, restaurants, strangers, parks, and the list continues endlessly.
Society often reverberates with the message: it’s not your problem or responsibility. We need to flip the worldly perspective to say, “I will be part of the solution. How can I help?” What if we entered each day with the attitude of everything I come in contact with today, I’m going to make it better.
- The checkout clerk at the store – smile and ask how she is doing
- The fast food restaurant where someone left a mess – throw away the trash with your own
- Parking lot – push a cart to the return bin so it doesn’t scratch any cars
- Neighborhood – pull your neighbor’s trash bin to the curb
- Your children – send them off to school with encouraging words
We’ve heard the statements – random acts of kindness or pay it forward. This quote embraces the same connotation and stands as the epitome of encouragement. Make an impact without desiring a reward in return. Do something for others without receiving recognition.
God has operated on this principle since the beginning of time. Each encounter with Him leaves us better than He found us. Shouldn’t we emulate our Creator?
About Shelley Pulliam
Howdy! (A girl from Oklahoma has to use this as her greeting) I’m Shelley Pulliam, executive director of Arise Ministries and former teacher of hormone-filled 8th graders. But my real claim to fame rests in my award as second grade spelling bee champ and my recent gun-handling skills as I train to competition shoot. It helps me be on guard when Satan comes knocking. I’m a voracious reader and can frequently be found at the theater enjoying movie marathons where my record stands at six in one day. I’m a single, never married, who loves to pour into children at every opportunity. Let me know if you have any for sale. You can connect with me on social media. https://www.instagram.com/shelleypulliam/