The idea of being a “thermostat” rather than a “thermometer” is a metaphor for how we approach our emotions and influence our family and home. A thermometer reflects the temperature, it responds to external conditions, while a thermostat intentionally sets the temperature, changing the temperature instead of just reacting to it.
Here are three ways to be a “thermostat”:
Speak Up!
Speaking positively not only changes your temperature but the whole room as you interact with others. Being intentionally optimistic can foster a peaceful environment.
Ephesians 4:29
Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
Immerse Yourself!
It is up to you to surround yourself with positive innflueces such as people, music, content you consume and the spaces you enter.
Proverbs 13:20
Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.
Value Others!
Valuing others requires you to take responsibility for how your actions impact others. By owning your responses and decisions, you empower yourself and change the temperature of those around you.
Philippians 2:3
Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.
You and your children deserve a thermostat.
